Selma van Diest, Clinical Psychologist
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                                                        Selma van Diest 
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Gender, Sex & Relationships
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How to conceive without killing your sex drive?

27/1/2015

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“Meet Kate and Mark. They are in their early thirties and have been together for 8 years. They are ready to start a family and have tried for several months to conceive. The disappointment of having her period every month makes Kate feel sad and unsettled. She now uses ovulation tests to increase her chance of pregnancy which has caused the sexual interaction to be timed and on demand. This has negatively impacted Mark’s desire to be intimate as intercourse has become a performance with high expectations. The sex has become single focussed on his ejaculation to the cost of their intimacy. Due to this demand on his sexual performance and the lack of intimacy his erection has lost strength and sometimes disappears completely. This issue puts both partners under even more stress.  The arguments start to build...“

Trying to have a baby sounds very romantic and it can be. But for some couples the process of 

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Sexualise your bedroom in 5 steps

25/1/2015

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As a sex therapist I discuss sexuality and sexual problems on a regular basis. For clients who experience difficulties in regards to sexuality I help them to improve their sexual relationship and overcome their sexual difficulties. However there are things you can already improve yourself that might cause your sexual feelings to improve without the need of intensive counselling sessions. Let’s focus on your bedroom and how to improve its atmosphere.

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' How often do I need an appointment?'                                              and other FAQ about our services

6/1/2015

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Sexual issues or psychological problems are quite common problems yet not easy to address when you are experiencing difficulties. We understand that finding the right person to turn to is maybe even more complicated. You should feel comfortable with the psychologist to enable a good therapeutic relationship that will provide you with the best possible outcomes.  With the information on our website about procedures and fees we are trying to inform you as much as we can to make your choice more comfortable. Still you might have some additional questions. In this update we provide an overview of some frequently asked questions and their answers before people make the decision to book an appointment. We invite you to read these questions and answers. If you have any other questions please feel free to contact Selma by phone or email. 

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Selma van Diest
Clinical Psychologist
Gender, Sex and Relationships
​04 68 815 114